Moving house is complicated, but taking a call on whether you should move to a new city or state can be even difficult. At times, it may become really difficult to decide if you should move to another state or not. For so long, you have been living in a place, and all of a sudden, when you have to decide if you should really move out of a familiar state and go to a whole new place. In fact, I myself was stuck with it a long ago, when I was moving out of my home town for the first time. But I was clear to a great extent that I have to move out to another state. And if you are also planning to move to another state, and you are finding it hard to decide if you should move or not, then here’s the post worth checking. Today, I am going to help you identify various signs and signals that will help you decide if you should relocate and move to another state.
Moving to a new state or a new city can be a life changing decision.
At least, it’s been so for me.
However, there are many who simply fail to spot and grab the opportunity at the right time, and hence stay behind in the rat race.
But how do you spot and identify those signals?
Well that’s what I am going to help you with.
I am going to help you identify certain conditions and situations which directly or indirectly are signaling that you should move out of the city you are living in currently.
Life is all about challenges and the decision to relocate to a new city is no less than a challenge. It is in fact a challenge that you have to take on both physically and mentally.
As far as the physical stress of moving to another state is concerned, you can always find ways and use movers and packers services. But dealing with the emotional stress of moving out to another state is no easy task, especially, if you are moving for the first time or if this decision is going to impact your career or life.
It becomes much easier when you have a family and the family is also moving with you. When your family is also moving with you, then it is still OK. But the moment you have to take the decision to move on your own leaving your family behind, there are many who will lack that confidence and step back.
Of course, many have got limitations and restrictions but we cannot deny the fact that at times, the decision of not relocating can actually become the biggest mistake which may have either positive or negative consequences.
Best ways to decide if you should move to another state or City
There are many who find it hard to decide if they should move to another state or live in the city they are living in since long. As I said, there are so many things that have to be considered before you decide to relocate and move out of state.
Be it your career, job, weather, environment or anything other opportunity, there can be many signs that may indicate that you should move out to another state. So, let’s take a good look on such signals that can easily help you to decide if you should move to another state or city within same state.
Here are the top signals that can help you decide if you should move. Evaluate these signals carefully and I am sure your decision to move or not to move will be right to a great extent.
Bigger career opportunity
In most cases, bigger and better career opportunity is going to be the main reason for home relocation and I can confirm this based on my personal experience of working with movers and packers since over last 10 years. More than 90% of the interstate relocation happens because of better career opportunity and job prospects.
So, if you are pissed off with your present job and want to quit it badly but your current location is not giving you good job opportunities, then that can actually be a very valid reason of you moving out of your present city and relocating to another bigger city or state. Moving to another state without a job lined up can be even more stressful.
Just one thing, you need to remember that before you decide to move out to another state, you should be sure that the city you are planning to move is better and that it offers better and bigger career opportunities. If you are sure of that, then may, this is the right time to relocate and give yourself a chance.
Financial concerns are one of the most important signs that it is time to relocate to a new city. But, talking about financial concerns, it is actually a little dicey and it has two sides to it, both of which may indicate that moving to another state is right for you.
In the first situation, if you are not satisfied with your income and want to earn more which your present location is not allowing you to do, then you can obviously take the decision of moving to a new city where the pay scale is comparatively higher.
Generally, this happens when you move to a costlier city where the cost of living in general, is higher than the previous city. But, at the end of the day, if you are having a handsome salary, then living in a costly neighborhood will not matter much to you as you will be able to afford it.
The other situation where probably you are already living in a city which has got high cost of living but your present job salary is not enough and that is leading to several financial concerns in your life. Even when it comes to basic necessities, maybe you are facing issues meeting those needs. This is a situation which requires very serious thinking.
You can either stay back or work hard to find a job with better salary or take the decision to move to a city where the cost of living is comparatively less than the city you are living in presently.
If you manage to find a job with decent salary (not too high or not too less), you will be able to save more and that will be good enough for you to lead a healthy and happy life.
So if you are sure that moving out to another state or city can help you get rid of your financial concerns, then may be, you should consider moving.
Weather is an important deciding factor and if the weather in your current location is not suiting you then you may like to consider moving to another state. But then, before you decide to move out, make sure you to plan about your job, business and financial concerns.
Although many do not consider it to be a very vital reason to relocate, but at times the situation forces you to consider it seriously and you should consider it as well. Like for example, if you are living in a city which is very polluted and you or any of your family member is seriously allergenic to it which has recently turned very serious, then you need to consider to move to another state that is not so polluted.
Similarly, some may be forced to shift to another state due to extreme cold or heat etc. Whatever it is, weather is an important deciding factor and you should consider this signal seriously.
Living in your dream city
Many of us dream of living in a big city which is full of hopes and dreams. Like for explain, Mumbai in India is a city of dreams for many and many actually dream of getting permanently settled there. So, if you also have any such dream and want to settle in any particular city, you can actually do it. This is because you will never feel satisfied in whatever you have achieved in life unless you fulfill your inner desire. Hence, it is best to listen to your inner calling and shift to the place of your dreams.
Get rid of bad memories
If you have had a bad past and too many bad memories are associated with your current location which is making you sad, then it will be wise of you to move out to a different city. This is because if the memories are too harsh and if your present place is constantly reminding you of those bad memories, then you will never be able to be happy. You need to keep yourself distracted from the negative thoughts and moving to a new city with new adventures and opportunities might actually help you live happily.
If you are sure about getting good career opportunity in the new city, then you may like to take a call and move out. You may get to make new friends, meet new colleague and it all this is going to help you make happy memories and that will further help you leave behind your past and move forward.
Moving for family
Most of the time we talk about cases where you are confused that you have to leave your family and shift to a new city but the situation can actually be the exact opposite as well which in turn, may be a good reason for you to relocate. You may have stayed away from your family for a very long time and now you want to relocate to another city to come closer to your family or maybe to your old city where your family stays.
I personally think this is a very valid reason for relocation and if you are missing your family badly and want to spend the rest of your life with them, then yes, it is one of the important signs that it is time to relocate to the city where your family is. We all have love for our family and have certain responsibilities towards our closed ones which we must not ignore.
Life is boring here
If you are bored with everything around you, then you can seriously consider it as a sign to move out to a new city. If there is no fun and excitement in life, life is going to be monotonous and there is no point in leading such a life, especially when you can get rid of it.
If there is
no important reason for you to stay in your present city, then it’s better to shift
to a city that is full of hopes and excitement.
The city we live in plays an important role in our life and if you want to improve the quality of your life and make it interesting, you may like to move out to a state or city that can make your life exciting and happy all over again.
Go out of your comfort zone
Many a times you need a change in your life in order to grow as a human being. In other words, if you have never been out of your comfort zone ever, then you may actually take up the challenge to go out of your comfort zone and do something in your life. There is no rule that you have to do it. In fact, you can stay in your comfort zone in your life throughout. But if you once take the decision and challenge yourself, then it will become a learning process for you.
You will make new experiences; learn a lot of new things that you were so far unaware of. In short, it will make you a stronger person. After all, life is very uncertain, we never know what challenges we have to face in life in future. In such a situation, if you are already a very strong-minded person who is ready to accept challenges, they you actually will be able to deal with tough situation much better in comparison to those who have never gone out of their comfort zone.
Over to do: how did you decide to move out to a new city?
As you know, moving to another city can be complicated, but deciding whether you should move to another state or not is no easy task. You have to clearly weigh in the advantages and disadvantages and then after evaluating all the factors, you should be able to decide whether you should move or not.
Of course you know what is right for you. But, when you know about the factors and signals and base your relocation decision on it, things will become much better.
I have already discussed about different factors and signals that should be evaluated before you take a call to relocate. You do not have to force yourself, simply think of all the scenarios with a calm mind, and then decide if you should move out of the current city you are living in or not.
Have you move out to another city or state recently? What motivated you to relocate and which factors did you consider before relocating? Feel free to share your experiences by commenting below.
Until next post, take a call and make the right relocation decision.